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Friday, 22 December 2017

ITCHY SCALP TREATMENTS

[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: DIY ITCHY SCALP TREATMENTS
TEA TREE OIL
1. Mix few drops of trea tree oil and lemon juice together apply to your scalp and rinse after 30 mins....repeat regularly until itching stops.
2. Mix like 10-20 drops of tea tree oil and 1 tbsp of vegetable oil together, massage this mixture onto your scalp directly.
Note:
Regular use of this remedy will surely heal a dry, itchy scalp.

BAKING SODA
Ingredients:
• Baking soda
• Water
Directions:
• Mix together to form a paste
• Apply to scalp leave for 15-30 minutes
• Rinse with water
Note:
 Keep applying until itching stops
[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: ALOE VERA
Ingredients
• Aloe vera gel
• Coconut oil

Directions:
• Warm the coconut oil slightly and add to aloe vera gel
• Rinse after a while and continue till itching stops.

LEMON JUICE
Ingredient
Freshly squeezed lemon juice
Directions:
• Apply the freshly squeezed lemon juice thoroughly onto the scalp
• Leave it on for about 5-7 mins
• Shampoo or wash hair.
[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: DIY ITCHY SCALP TREATMENTS
TEA TREE OIL
1. Mix few drops of trea tree oil and lemon juice together apply to your scalp and rinse after 30 mins....repeat regularly until itching stops.
2. Mix like 10-20 drops of tea tree oil and 1 tbsp of vegetable oil together, massage this mixture onto your scalp directly.
Note:
Regular use of this remedy will surely heal a dry, itchy scalp.

BAKING SODA
Ingredients:
• Baking soda
• Water
Directions:
• Mix together to form a paste
• Apply to scalp leave for 15-30 minutes
• Rinse with water
Note:
 Keep applying until itching stops
[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: ALOE VERA
Ingredients
• Aloe vera gel
• Coconut oil

Directions:
• Warm the coconut oil slightly and add to aloe vera gel
• Rinse after a while and continue till itching stops.

LEMON JUICE
Ingredient
Freshly squeezed lemon juice
Directions:
• Apply the freshly squeezed lemon juice thoroughly onto the scalp
• Leave it on for about 5-7 mins
• Shampoo or wash hair.
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Clarifying of scalp.

DIY Clarifying Of Scalp
1. Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse
Ingredients:
• 2 cups of water
• 1/4 cup of apple cider vinegar (ACV)
Directions:
Combine the water and ACV into a bowl or cup. Slowly pour over hair, scrubbing scalp and hair to remove buildup.
To smooth the cuticles and restore PH balance, you can also use this rinse as your final step after washing, conditioning and detangling.
Note:
A good ACV rinse can remove product buildup, restore the pH balance of the scalp and hair, promote blood circulation in the scalp which can stimulate new hair growth and give the hair a soft, healthy sheen.

2. Baking Soda Rinse
Ingredients:
• 2 cups warm water
• ½ cup baking soda
Directions:
• Allow to dissolve
• Apply to scalp and hair.
• Massage.
Can be used after regular shampooing or in place of it. The mixture should not be gritty, it should be smooth and easy to apply.
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Do it yourself SHAMPOO

[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: DIY SHAMPOO
To avoid buying a sulfate free shampoo and in keeping natural hair on a budget, here are some recipes:
Recipe 1
Ingredients
• Raw black soap
• Castor oil, Almond oil and tea tree oil or peppermint oil
• Vegetable glycerin
Direction
• Boil water
• Cut the black soap into bits or very tiny pieces
• Place the tiny pieces of soap into a bowl
• Pour the boiled water into the bowl of soap
• Stir well
• Add the oils, castor and almond (you can use oils of your choice)
• Add vegetable glycerin
• Add few drops of tea tree oil or peppermint oil because they are essential oils.
• Cover with a nylon and leave for two days.
• Open and stir
• Pour into a bottle
Your DIY shampoo is ready!
[12/22, 12:27 PM] Baby: Recipe 2
Ingredients
• Raw black soap
• Aloe vera gel
• 2 tbs ACV (Apple Cider Vinegar)


Recipe 3
Ingredients
• Raw black soap
• 1 tbs baking soda

Recipe 4
• Raw black soap
• Honey
• Olive/Coconut oil
Note:
You can use Dudu Osun soap instead of raw black soap as shampoo, it is part of keeping natural hair on a budget.
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Scalp treatment1

[12/22, 12:26 PM] ‪+234 816 861 2873‬: 1. Honey & Olive Oil
The honey mask is one of my favorite pre-poos to use because it’s super moisturizing and the ingredients make it super convenient to use.
The humectant properties of honey strengthen the hair strands helping to regulate and retain moisture in the hair follicles.
Olive oil is a natural hair softener which also aids in strengthening the hair.
The combination of the two can combat even the dryest curls!

What you need:
• 2-3 tbsp olive oil (depending on your hair length and fullness)
• 2 tsp raw honey
• Heat source and small pan or pot
• Shower cap


Directions
• Just warm up about 2-3 tbsp of olive oil (depending on your hair length/thickness) then add 1-2 tsp of raw honey.
• Mix them up then apply on your scalp and hair.
• Cover with a shower cap then wash off after 30 minutes.


2. Aloe Vera Scalp Treatment
For this DIY pre- poo all you need is an aloe vera leaf, slice and scoop out the gel into a bowl. You can take your slices and apply them directly to your scalp or blend before applying. The aloe vera plant contains proteolytic enzymes that help repair dead skin cells on the scalp, promote hair growth and prevents dandruff.
You can use it with oils.

3. Peppermint Oil Pre-Poo
A simple mixture of peppermint oil and coconut oil. Coconut oil is an amazing pre-poo treatment! It protects the hair follicle by penetrating under the cuticle when the hair swells during the “wetting” process, resulting in less contracting and reducing the chances of damage.
4. Oil mix
You can also mix carrot oil, onion oil, olive oil and palm kernel oil together as prepoo.
[12/22, 12:27 PM] ‪+234 816 861 2873‬: 5. Onion, Garlic ,Ginger juice and palmoil
 Direction for use :
• Extract the juice of onion, garlic and ginger by blending with a very little water, and strain out or sieve the juice.
• Warm palm oil and add to the juice. (Optional)
• Add a egg yolk to the juice and whisk together (Optional)
• Massage to scalp and edges after detangling and putting your hair in sections.
• Cover hair for 30mins or more with a shower cap.
Your hair will be super soft after this!

Note:
Onion, garlic and or ginger juice works effectively for hair growth, dandruff, regrowing of edges etc.

How to do a pre-poo:

• Gather your ingredients for your pre-poo
• Section your dry hair into 4 or more sections
• De-tangle each section with a wide tooth comb
• Spread your choice of pre-poo over each section
• Cover hair with a shower cap and leave it for 15-30 mins before washing.
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A PRE-POO.!

What is a pre-poo?

A pre-poo is when you apply a conditioning treatment to the hair prior to shampooing or washing so as to add moisture to the follicles.
Pre-pooing is basically a guard that we use to block any damage that may occur during the washing process.

How does the pre-poo affect your hair?

Yes, it's true that everything that you put on your hair before a shampoo will be washed away. It may be hard to see the point of doing this step in the first place. Let's remember that the process of washing the hair can be very stressful on the hair, especially if you are still using a sulfate shampoo. In fact, there tends to be a ton of manipulation during the washing, deep conditioning and styling routine. Doing a pre-poo conditions the cuticle and gets it prepared for the manipulation to follow.

Which products are best for a pre-poo?

What you use as a pre-poo is solely up to you (your choice)
Generally oils and humectants such as honey and conditioners are all great options for pre-poos.

DIY Pre-Poos

If you would rather mix your own pre-poo instead of buy, there are a ton of recipes out there to get you started. Eventually you will get a feel for what your hair likes and doesn't like, but here are some easy recipes that work for every hair type.
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HOW TO DO Onions AND COCONUT. OILS

[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: COCONUT OIL
This does not only softens hair but it will also condition the scalp.
Ingredients
• Matured coconuts
• Wooden stick
• Cheese cloth or Sieve

COLD PRESSED COCONUT OIL METHOD
1.Grate matured coconuts after taking it out from its shell
(atleast 6 or more nuts can get you enough cold pressed coconut oil)
2. Add hot water to the grated coconuts,use a wooden stick to stir and sieve using a cheese cloth or net sieve to get coconut milk(your coconut milk should't be too watery)
3. Cover the sieved coconut milk and allow it to sit for 24hrs, thereafter refrigerate for another 24hrs
4. You will notice the top of ur coconut milk is in a kind of solid state,use a spoon and scoop the top in an air tight container and keep in a cool place.
Your cold pressed coconut oil is ready.

 HOT PRESSED COCONUT OIL METHOD
1. Grate matured coconuts already taken out from its shell(matured coconut is advised as that will get more oils)
2. Add warm or normal water,stir using ur hand or a wooden stick and sieve using a cheesecloth or a net sieve to get coconut milk
3. Pour coconut milk into a sauce pan or pot and set over a low heat
4. Stir the coconut milk while it heats up, continue to do this until the milk/liquid dries up,Then u take the pot off the heat
5. You will be left with oil and some brown coconut chaff
6. Sieve again the oil in order to seperate the oil from the chaff,Transfer sieved oil into an air tight container.
Your hot pressed coconut oil is ready for use.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: ONION OIL
Onions have proven to be a great remedy in keeping natural hair on a budget.
They are cheap to get but are of so many benefits to hair in that:
They add volume to hair
Help to grow hair tremendously
Fights dandruff because of its rich antibacterial properties
To regrow edges, prevent hair shedding, breakage and so many other benefits.

Ingredients Needed For DIY Onion Oil Are:
Onions
Curry leaves
Coconut oil

Direction:
• Chop onions into bits and put into a blender
• Add very little water and blend.
• Heat your coconut oil in a pot.
• Add curry leaves
• Add your blended onion
• Leave to boil for 30-40 minutes
• Remove pot or saucepan from heat, stir and let it to simmer for 7-8hrs.
• Sieve out your oil
• Store in a bottle, Your onion oil is ready!
Note:
 You can even put a curry leaf or 2 leaves inside your onion oil and apply to your hair.
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Avocado oils!and how to do it yoursel

[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: AVOCADO OIL
You know that avocado is good for your health because of all the wonderful nutrients it contains. It turns out that those nutrients can also do wonders for your natural hair. Packed with vitamins A, Dand E, as well as B vitamins and protein. Avocado oil is commonly used as a carrier oil for essential oils.
Vitamin E is a good ingredient because it strengthens the hair follicles and repairs damage caused by harsh chemical treatments.
Vitamin B provides nourishment to your hair follicles and prevents a flaky scalp.
This healthy oil is known as a superfood because of these essential ingredients.

Benefits Of Using Avocado Oil For Your Natural Hair Are:
1. Avocado oil can effectively detangle your hair. Avocado oil acts as a lubricant that keeps your hair from getting tangled.
2. Avocado oil can penetrate scalp and correct the condition that is causing the dandruff and dry scalp .
3. Avocado oil is a light weight hair oil. It penetrates through the hair and scalp without leaving your hair greasy or stiff. After you apply avocado oil to your hair, you will notice that it is soft, silky and shiny.
4. Avocado oil effectively moisturizes your hair.
The benefits of using avocado oil are endless. The best way to determine how avocado oil will benefit you is to do it yourself!
You can use it alone or look for hair care products that contain it.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: How To Make Avocado Oil:
If you want to extract oil from the avocado itself, you will need a large amount of avocados.
Start with like twelve avocados.
1. Slice the avocados around the pit in half. Then separate the halves and get out the pit (remove the seed).Use a spoon to take out the fruit of the avocados and put them into a blender or a food processor.
2. Use the blender to make a puree (smooth paste) out of those avocados! It has to be like a paste, with no chunks. You can also mash the avocados with your hands if you don’t have a blender.
3. When you have your thick paste, spread the avocado on a baking tray or stainless tray. The layer has to be even or well spread but don’t make it too thick or thin.
4. Take the tray and put it in the sun to dry. It may take up to two days. If you don’t want to wait, then put the tray in the oven and set the temperature to more than 50°C.
Note: It may take up to 5 hours to dry the avocado in the oven. You also have to check it every hour and make sure that it is drying, not baking. If the avocado is turning black, it is time to take it out.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: Method 2
How to extract oil from avocado through
cooking.
You will need twelve avocados again. Peel them the same way as we did in the previous option.Use the blender or your food processor to make the avocado puree.
1. When you’ve done all the mentioned steps, it is time to start some cooking. Take your blended puree(smooth paste) and put it into a pot. Put the pot on a stove and turn the heat on “medium”.
2. Don’t forget to stir the avocados. You should do this every five minutes.
Note:
The avocado will start to boil. You will notice that there will be oils on the top of the mixture. Don’t worry and don’t try to get the oils right away.
3. Cook and stir the mixture until it’s dark green or brown. You will also notice that the water has evaporated.
4. The next steps are the same as in the previous
option - take a clean, thin cloth and put the avocado mix into the cloth. Make it like a sack, put a bowl under it and squeeze the oils into the bowl. Then pour them into a bottle and eventually clarify the oil.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: 5. Take the avocado out of the oven. Use a spatula (wooden spoon) to get the avocado out of the tray and put it into a thin cotton cloth.
6. Take the cloth and pitch the corners together making a sack. Squeeze the avocado oil into a bowl.
7. Pour the avocado into a bottle. Let it sit for a few days and then clarify it to ensure no particles inside.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: The result is an enriching oil with a greenish yellow colour. You shouldn't have any bits of avocado pulp if using the correct thin cloth or cheese cloth. Strain again if you do.
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ALOE VERA Oils! And how to do it

[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: ALOE VERA OIL
Aloe vera plant is very beneficial to skin and hair.
I know it may be difficult for some of you to get those fresh Aloe Vera leaves straight from the plant, but trust me, just make a little effort to get or just buy a plant and put it into your balcony. This is the right time to plant aloe vera in your compound because it will be so useful for many operations in your natural hair journey.
For your Aloe vera oil these are the ingredients you will need:
1. Aloe Vera leaves.
2. Coconut oil or any carrier oil of your choice like castor oil, olive or almond oil.
3) Vitamin E oil as preservative

FIRST METHOD
1. Get matured aloe vera leaves (quantity depends on how much oil you need)
2. Wash and dice your aloe vera leaves,Transfer in an air tight bottle, pour olive oil and add 4-5 tablespoons of vitamin E for preservation
3. Cover the bottle and keep in cool place to sit for 3-4weeks
4. Thereafter,sieve out the oil to separate the diced aloe vera leaves.Transfer oil into a clean air tight container and store in a cool place.
Your aloe vera oil is ready!
You can choose to add few drops of lavender oil.
[12/22, 12:26 PM] Baby: SECOND METHOD FOR PREPARING ALOE VERA OIL
1. Take fresh Aloe Vera leaves wash them to remove any dirt.
2. Slice out the corners to remove the thorns. With a sharp knife, from top slice out the leaf into two.
3. Now take a bowl and extract the gel out of the leaf with a spoon and put it into a bowl.
4. Pour the coconut oil into a sauce pan or pot and place on a low heat. Let it simmer and occasionally keep on stirring the mixture well. With time you can hardly see any gel left and the oil turns into brown.
5. Take the pot or sauce pan off the heat, allow to cool, sieve your aloe oil into an air tight bottle. Your aloe vera oil is ready!
You can also add 3-4 capsules of Vitamin E oil as it acts as a natural preservative. This is optional because you can still store and use this oil for like one month.

Miraculous benefits of Aloe Vera hair oil
Aloe vera is more than a hair oil but a powerful hair tonic. Aloe Vera contains many nutritious values and various vitamins like C, A, B1, B2etc.
• Reduces hair fall
• Increases hair growth perfect cure for dry and itchy scalp
• Makes hair thick and helps to regrow hair
• Hair feels so smooth, soft and silky after every wash after doing a hot oil massage with this oil.
I suggest to use this hair oil twice weekly and do a nice hot oil massage (pre-poo) and just leave it on for 5-6 hrs or overnight and wasoff with shampoo and condition as usual.
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Do it yourself..how and methods of doing carrot oil which is very enriching to the hair.

[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: DIY (Do It Yourself) Hair Enriching Oils.
Carrots
Do you know that carrots are good for health, but do you know that they are also good for hair growth?
Yes! The importance of the carrot to the natural hair cannot be over emphasized or over looked.
You can eat a carrot a day, or drink carrot juice to see instant results in hair growth and texture. Regularly using carrot externally and internally, will surely give you strong and healthy hair.
Benefits of Carrots
• Carrots are known to add thickness to hair and make hair grow faster.
They are filled with nutrients and vitamins like Vitamin A, K, C, B6, B1, B3, B2, fibre, potassium, phosphorous and many others which are good for health, skin and hair.
• Using of carrots for your hair stimulates hair growth.
• Carrots make hair shiny and give hair silky-smooth texture.
• Carrots improve blood circulation, strengthen hair and prevent breakage of hair and hair fall or shedding.
• Carrots protect hair from external damages like pollution, weather etc.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: CARROT OIL
You just need the following to achieve a super long and strong thick natural hair with carrot;
a) Carrots
b) Either Olive oil, coconut oil or castor oil
c) Hand grater
d) Bowl
e) Bottle
f) Pot
g) Sieve
HOW TO MAKE CARROT OIL - HEAT METHOD
1. Wash ur carrots, peel the first layer off to get the orange clean part.
2. Grate carrots with hand grater.
2. Cover carrots with coconut oil, olive oil or any other oil of your choice in a pot.
3. Cook carrots in the oil on a very low heat until they are tender and the oil has turned orange.
4. Pour mixture through a sieve and sieve over and over till u have little or no particles in it.
5. Store in a bottle or jar.
Your carrot oil is ready!
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: HOW TO MAKE CARROT OIL - NO HEAT METHOD
What you need:
• Unwashed carrots
• Extra virgin olive oil or liquid coconut oil
• Grater
• A clean glass jar
• A clean bowl
Directions:
1. Peel carrots. Do not wash them. If they’re wet, dry them thoroughly or leave them to completely dry without a drop of water before proceeding further.
2. Next, grate your peeled carrots into a bowl. Transfer them into a clean glass jar.
3. Fill up the jar with your oil of choice (extra virgin olive oil, liquid coconut oil, etc). Make sure the jar is filled to the top of the jar with oil and cover jar tightly. This prevents any air in the jar that will make the oil rancid. Now store your jar in a warm area and leave it there for about 2 weeks. Shake the jar everyday to allow the nutrients of the carrots to infuse into the oil.
4. After 2 weeks, strain the oil using a fine plastic mesh strainer or sieve into another clean jar. Use a funnel to avoid spillage.
5. And your homemade carrot oil is ready for use! Label it ‘homemade carrot oil’ and mark the date. Store it in a cool dry place like the refrigerator to lengthen its shelf life.

Uses Of Carrot Oils.
• For your spritz. That is, it can be mixed with water in your spray bottle for moisturizing your hair.
• For shea mix (mixture of sheabutter with oils)
• Oil mix (mixture of oils)
• For sealing moisture.
• As prepoo and hot oil treatment.
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Keep and regrow the edges of ur hair.👧👩

[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: Treatments for regrowing your edges.
• Rubbing the thinning areas with oil or oil mixture treatments can help in re-growing hair in those areas. These treatments will reduce the damage on your edges by repairing the follicles and encourage hair growth.
For example, rubbing your scalp with vitamin E is a great way to stimulate growth.
 •The SheaMoisture Raw Shea Butter Deep Treatment Masque is great. You can warm it up a little bit and massage it into your scalp.
• Castor oil (especially Jamaican Black Castor Oil), JBCO is the unrefined version of Castor Oil. This means the full health benefits and nutrients were not lost during processing. A daily or weekly (depending on the severity) deep edges massage will greatly improve circulation and stimulation of the hair follicle.
Other oils you can add to castor oil or use as a replacement are olive, coconut, jojoba and sweet almond oil.
• Peppermint Oil & Jojoba Oil
Similarly to Jamaican Black Castor Oil, Peppermint Essential Oil is an antibacterial known for removing impurities causing growth obstructions. Its cooling effect also relaxes the follicle, promoting healthy hair growth. Since Jojoba (carrier oil) is the oil closest to that of our own natural oils, it is the best choice for a carrier oil.
A soothing carrier oil is needed with peppermint oil because of how potent it can be.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: • Another great natural and effective mixture is Basil Oil( Scent leaves oil/Efirin in yoruba) and Jojoba. Consistent and weekly pre-poo (before cleansing) with this mixture will improve hairline with major results.
• Aloevera oil or gel is also okay for growing edges.
 • Try a light protein treatment mixed with moisturizer and massage it into your scalp to
stimulate the growth
• Onion and ginger are also very good in regrowing edges.
• Sleeping on a satin pillowcase
Start sleeping on a satin pillowcase instead of a cotton one because the cotton pillowcase will absorb the natural oils and moisture right out of your hair. The friction between your hair and cotton pillowcase can lead to breakage. Your edges need those oils and moisture when they are thinning, so pamper them with the right nighttime treatments.
• At the very least a daily multi-vitamin will aid in hair growth. Also nutritious diets are required.
• Scalp massage
Scalp massage stimulate the skin and encourage the blood vessels to increase blood flow and boost circulation to the scalp and hair follicles. This increased circulation brings more nutrients and oxygen to the hair follicles and may aid in hair growth. Which oils to use is less important than the actual act of massaging and this can be done without oil, as the purpose is to encourage circulation.
When you massage, it is important to only use the pads of your fingers; don't rake over this sensitive area with fingernails. Move around in a gentle, circular pattern for a few minutes each day. Don't press down firmly on your hairline.
How often do you massage your edges? You need to do this once every 2 days for 2 months nonstop.
• Remember I said earlier that tight buns and ponytails are bad for edges! Well, you don't have to give up entirely on styles just to regrow your edges.
There are so many natural hairstyles for thin edges that you can choose from. Twist and braid outs do not require that your hair is pulled tightly. Also, loose high puffs using a shoe string or an old stretched out headband are alternative updos without stressing the edges.
• Hydrate
Hydrating your edges is a major key in regrowth and maintaining health. Spritzing your edges with water or aloe vera juice and adding oil afterward is a great way to make sure your edges remain most hydrated and doesn’t become brittle.
When our hair is dry, it becomes brittle and more prone to breakage.
Moisturizing, as usual, will be the key to maintaining healthy edges and promoting growth.

Regrowing your edges needs time and consistency. If you continue to avoid styles that put too much strain or stress on your hairlines, reduce manipulation and nourish your edges they will grow back but it takes consistency. It may take a while before you notice improvement, but it is well worth the wait.
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DO U WANT TO KEEP HAIR NATURAL?? Here are some steps to follow.

[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: Keeping Your Natural Hair On A Budget.
Natural hair can look a little discouraging because of different kinds of expensive natural hair care products out there.
Yes! Natural hair is an expensive venture if you don't know your way!
You don't need to have so much unnecessary products all over your shelf, and you don't neccessarily have to buy all hair care products you see or hear about.
Don't be a product junkie! The basic things that will ensure you enjoy your natural hair journey and have awesome results is understanding your hair porosity, type and density.
When you know your hair better, you will be able to build your hair care regime, know what works for you and then put it on a budget!
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: But first, what is your budget? Trust me, it is very easy to get carried away with products, it is even the easiest thing!
You need to put your natural hair on a budget. To plan a budget the following tips will help you go about it:
1. You need to allocate a particular amount for products and ensure you follow it.
2. Next, study your hair. Know the kind of products that are applicable and what are not beneficial to your hair.
Find out what works for your hair and stick to it. Product junkism might not allow your hair thrive.
3. Make enquiries before buying any product. Ensure you have satisfiable reviews on such product before you buy it. Often times, some of these products are just hype, nothing else.
4. Finally, you really do not need to go an extra length saving money to get expensive products if you have the basics of doing it yourself.
You can do most of these hair care products yourself! DIY hair recipes are sometimes much more reliable and effective.
You can totally manage your natural hair on your budget. Don’t let anyone convince or tell you otherwise.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: The basic operations usually carried out in the natural hair journey are:
• Pre poo
• Shampooing
• Deep Conditioning
• Protein treatment
• Clarifying of scalp
• Cowashing
• After wash rinse
• Moisturizing
• Styling.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: For bad or thin edges, take note of the following:
• Avoid tight hairstyles
Hair edges may eventually get thinner or bald when wearing tight hairstyles frequently, which pulls the edges. The ponytail hairstyles that are also in braids may put stress on hair edges. When wearing braids avoid wearing a ponytail with the braids, because it will pull the hair edges and the edges will eventually get thinner.
• Stay away from gels that contain alcohol
There are gels for natural hair that don't contain alcohol and have no negative effect on edges. For example, Eco Styler Gel
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: • Keep face cleanser and toner from touching your edges.
Most face cleansers contain alcohol, care should be taken when applying on face so that it doesn't touch your edges. The effect of face cleanser and toners that have  alcohol is that it drys out your hairline. Once your hairline drys out it will become weak and eventually break off.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: • Avoid the use of brush on your edges.
• Wearing tight satin caps with non- satin borders
If your satin bonnet or cap is too tight or is not satin around the edge you are doing more harm than good. Just sleep using satin pillowcase, bonnets or caps that are too tight around your edges are not a good idea.
• Using glues, adhesives, or wig caps
The use of glues, adhesives, and wig caps won't allow your scalp to breathe, and yes it needs air! Some women are even experiencing allergic reactions to the glues and adhesives, which do not always appear immediately. If you are trying to regrow your edges, I suggest you stay away from them.
[12/22, 12:25 PM] Baby: Treatments for regrowing your edges.
• Rubbing the thinning areas with oil or oil mixture treatments can help in re-growing hair in those areas. These treatments will reduce the damage on your edges by repairing the follicles and encourage hair growth.
For example, rubbing your scalp with vitamin E is a great way to stimulate growth.
 •The SheaMoisture Raw Shea Butter Deep Treatment Masque is great. You can warm it up a little bit and massage it into your scalp.
• Castor oil (especially Jamaican Black Castor Oil), JBCO is the unrefined version of Castor Oil. This means the full health benefits and nutrients were not lost during processing. A daily or weekly (depending on the severity) deep edges massage will greatly improve circulation and stimulation of the hair follicle.
Other oils you can add to castor oil or use as a replacement are olive, coconut, jojoba and sweet almond oil.
• Peppermint Oil & Jojoba Oil
Similarly to Jamaican Black Castor Oil, Peppermint Essential Oil is an antibacterial known for removing impurities causing growth obstructions. Its cooling effect also relaxes the follicle, promoting healthy hair growth. Since Jojoba (carrier oil) is the oil closest to that of our own natural oils, it is the best choice for a carrier oil.
A soothing carrier oil is needed with peppermint oil because of how potent it can be.
Read More »

Thursday, 21 December 2017

SOYAYYAR MU👫.
     By Ganarious.
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Ki yanke min ko wata irin hukunci amma karki yi fushi dani....ni kadai nasan yanda naji a raina ganin ki haka.Don Allah ina rokonki kar ki karayin irin wannan fushin,nasan nayi laifi kuma a shirye nake da na dauki hukuncin da za'ayimin amma ba da wannan ba.
 Ba san sa'anda hawaye ya zubomin ba,ina me kallonsa nace "kafada min dalilinka na rashin zuwa duba mu..kuma yaushe kaji na haihu?
  Ya sa hannunsa ya sharemin hawayen,sannan yace Bani da lafiya ne!.
Nan da nan na rude,na kuma shiga tausaya masa ..ina fadin "ya jikin?
Na ji sauki hamdala...
Nan ta'ke mu manta komai muka shiga hira irin ta masoya masu shaukin juna...sai da yaro ya fara kuka sannan fa muka tuna yana gun,fillo ya taka zuwa gun gadon ya dauko shi.
  Ya dawo gefena yana me kallon jaririn,nikuma ina shafa kansa(shi jaririn).
Yayi murmushi yace tabdijam...wannan d'an kam ba'ki ne,muka tuntsire da dariya sabida yanayin da yayi furucin.
 Ai nice sak...wannan ba'kin nawa ne....sabida haka sai kawai ka sanya masa sunnan baba na.
 Da sauri ya kalle ni,yace kin so kanki da yawa! Duk da nima zan so haka  .
Wannan kam Baban mahaifiyata ne domin kuwa shima din ba'kin buzu ne ,kamar wannan jaririn.
Ahmadu shine sunan da aka sanyawa yaron,sai nake kiransa da MUJAHEED..wannan  jaririn shima akwai shi da shiga rai.
  Wata biyu nayi na koma gida.
Abu kamar wasa tunda muka koma gida fillo bai leko mu ba,har zamu shiga sati na uku..sai nake tunanin wata kila bashi da lafiya ne kuma...
Sabida tunanin haka na shiyar ranar asabar,tare da yin girke-girke don kaimasa.
Hisham da ilham sashen binta na kaisu sannan na nufi zaria.
Gidan da nayi zama alokacin da nake karatu nan yake zaune shima,don haka ban wani yi wahalan neman gida ba.
Na tarar da gidan a rufe,da alama baya nan kenan.
Na dade tsaye ina tunane-tunanen abinyi sai wata zuciyar na rayamin wata kila yana hanyar kadunan....
A zuciya ta nace ko da yana garin ban san lokacin dawowansa ba...ina cikin wannan tunanin mujaheed ya fara motsi,ya tashi daga baccin kenan.
Wai waiga  na gani ko zan sami gun zama,ai ssi nayi ido hudu da fillo cikin mota.
Motan nan tana gun sa'anda na  wuce domin kuwa ta gefen ta na bi amman tunani bai bani da na kalli cikin motan ba balle mutanen cikinsa.
    Wata fara mace ce a gefe,daga alama itace mai motar don zaune take a kujeran direba.
Muna hada ido da naji zuciyata na ras-ras da karfi...
Kallonsa nake shima hakan,sai kuma ya maida kallonsa ga matar suka ci gaba da maganarsu.
  Na da'de ban dauke idona daga gareshi ba,har sai da mujaheed ya fara kuka...
 na rasa mafita gashi ba gun zama,gashi fillo bai zo ya bude mana kofa ba...duk sai na rude cikin kankanin lokaci.
Kuka yake sosai..niko sai girgiza shi nakeyi ba tare da na sa'ko shi daga baya na ba...muna cikin haka fillo ya fito daga motan,ita kuma ta ja motan ta wuce.
Ya karaso inda nake tsaye ya amshi mujaheed ya bude kofa yashiga ciki ya kwantar dashi.
Ya dawo ya kwashi kaya ya shigar.ya sake dawowa har zuwa wannan lokacin tsaye nake bani ko motsawa.
Ya matso gaba na,muna dab da juna domin ina jiyo numfashinsa.
  A hankali yace 'mu shiga ciki ko!.
Nan ma ban motsa ba,gashi sai ihu mujaheed keyi.
 Ya rikemin hannu ya jani zuwa ciki.
da kansa ya zaunar da ni,ya nufi gun a.c ya kunna sannan ya dawo ya dauki mujaheed yana lallashi,duk da haka yaro ya kiyin shiru.
Ya dawo gefena yana fadin don Allah ki saurari wannan yaron..
Ko kallonsa banyi ba balle na amsa shi. Shi ke kidansa,shi ke kuma rawansa...
...sai da maganar sa ta isheni na na mike a hasale,na fizgi mujaheed ina kokarin goya shi.
Shima ya mike cikin mamaki,yana kokarin rike ni,na fizge hannuna.ya sake kamo hannuna  yace don Allah kiyi hankuri kiyi min magana...
Kuka irin ta ban tausayin nan ce ta ci karfi na ...sai kawai naji ina tausawa kaina.
Da dabaransa ya samu ya zaunar dani.mujaheed kam yayi kuka har ya hakura.
ya sani ga'ba ya kallon ina kuka har sai da nayi me  isa ta.
Sai da kukan ya lafa sannan yace "haba Aisha"....nasan dai kishi ne,amman a duniya kinsan bani da kamar ki kuma ba zani sami kamar ki ba.
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SOYAYYAR MU👫.
     By Ganarious.
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Ki yanke min ko wata irin hukunci amma karki yi fushi dani....ni kadai nasan yanda naji a raina ganin ki haka.Don Allah ina rokonki kar ki karayin irin wannan fushin,nasan nayi laifi kuma a shirye nake da na dauki hukuncin da za'ayimin amma ba da wannan ba.
 Ba san sa'anda hawaye ya zubomin ba,ina me kallonsa nace "kafada min dalilinka na rashin zuwa duba mu..kuma yaushe kaji na haihu?
  Ya sa hannunsa ya sharemin hawayen,sannan yace Bani da lafiya ne!.
Nan da nan na rude,na kuma shiga tausaya masa ..ina fadin "ya jikin?
Na ji sauki hamdala...
Nan ta'ke mu manta komai muka shiga hira irin ta masoya masu shaukin juna...sai da yaro ya fara kuka sannan fa muka tuna yana gun,fillo ya taka zuwa gun gadon ya dauko shi.
  Ya dawo gefena yana me kallon jaririn,nikuma ina shafa kansa(shi jaririn).
Yayi murmushi yace tabdijam...wannan d'an kam ba'ki ne,muka tuntsire da dariya sabida yanayin da yayi furucin.
 Ai nice sak...wannan ba'kin nawa ne....sabida haka sai kawai ka sanya masa sunnan baba na.
 Da sauri ya kalle ni,yace kin so kanki da yawa! Duk da nima zan so haka  .
Wannan kam Baban mahaifiyata ne domin kuwa shima din ba'kin buzu ne ,kamar wannan jaririn.
Ahmadu shine sunan da aka sanyawa yaron,sai nake kiransa da MUJAHEED..wannan  jaririn shima akwai shi da shiga rai.
  Wata biyu nayi na koma gida.
Abu kamar wasa tunda muka koma gida fillo bai leko mu ba,har zamu shiga sati na uku..sai nake tunanin wata kila bashi da lafiya ne kuma...
Sabida tunanin haka na shiyar ranar asabar,tare da yin girke-girke don kaimasa.
Hisham da ilham sashen binta na kaisu sannan na nufi zaria.
Gidan da nayi zama alokacin da nake karatu nan yake zaune shima,don haka ban wani yi wahalan neman gida ba.
Na tarar da gidan a rufe,da alama baya nan kenan.
Na dade tsaye ina tunane-tunanen abinyi sai wata zuciyar na rayamin wata kila yana hanyar kadunan....
A zuciya ta nace ko da yana garin ban san lokacin dawowansa ba...ina cikin wannan tunanin mujaheed ya fara motsi,ya tashi daga baccin kenan.
Wai waiga  na gani ko zan sami gun zama,ai ssi nayi ido hudu da fillo cikin mota.
Motan nan tana gun sa'anda na  wuce domin kuwa ta gefen ta na bi amman tunani bai bani da na kalli cikin motan ba balle mutanen cikinsa.
    Wata fara mace ce a gefe,daga alama itace mai motar don zaune take a kujeran direba.
Muna hada ido da naji zuciyata na ras-ras da karfi...
Kallonsa nake shima hakan,sai kuma ya maida kallonsa ga matar suka ci gaba da maganarsu.
  Na da'de ban dauke idona daga gareshi ba,har sai da mujaheed ya fara kuka...
 na rasa mafita gashi ba gun zama,gashi fillo bai zo ya bude mana kofa ba...duk sai na rude cikin kankanin lokaci.
Kuka yake sosai..niko sai girgiza shi nakeyi ba tare da na sa'ko shi daga baya na ba...muna cikin haka fillo ya fito daga motan,ita kuma ta ja motan ta wuce.
Ya karaso inda nake tsaye ya amshi mujaheed ya bude kofa yashiga ciki ya kwantar dashi.
Ya dawo ya kwashi kaya ya shigar.ya sake dawowa har zuwa wannan lokacin tsaye nake bani ko motsawa.
Ya matso gaba na,muna dab da juna domin ina jiyo numfashinsa.
  A hankali yace 'mu shiga ciki ko!.
Nan ma ban motsa ba,gashi sai ihu mujaheed keyi.
 Ya rikemin hannu ya jani zuwa ciki.
da kansa ya zaunar da ni,ya nufi gun a.c ya kunna sannan ya dawo ya dauki mujaheed yana lallashi,duk da haka yaro ya kiyin shiru.
Ya dawo gefena
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SOYAYYARM 👫

SOYAYYAR MU👫.
    By A'ishah M.Gana
         (Ganarious)
1⃣9⃣.
Sai da dare yayi Babana ya sake kiranmu falonsa.
Nan yake fadin dalili kiran mu.dalilin kuwa shine batun makaranta ta.nayi farin ciki da haka domin form din makarantan Nigeria civil Aviation training center wanda a yanzu aka fi sani da The Nigeria college of Aviation technology dake zaria ya miko min,ya kuma kara yiwa fillo bayani.
Sai da nacika form din sa'anan muka koma gida.
Mamata taso na fara zuwa jami'a na farayi digiri idan yaso sai na je nan din,baba yace hakan ma yayi ba laifi..idan na gama nan din sai na shiga jami'a daga nan sai naje kasar germany watau makarantar da na baro.
Makarantar tukun jirgi dake zaria,a jihar kaduna tarihinta ba'a taba samun mace musulma daga arewa ba sai ni.
Na sa himma sosai.tukin jirgi kawai na zaba a matsayin course,shi kuma wannan course din shekaru biyu zuwa uku akeyinta.
Zaria na koma da zama,nakan shiga kaduna akai akai domin ganin fillo sabida shi baya samun lokaci...wata sa'in yana zuwa min weekends ko ni naje.
Na dawo gida a yayinda mukayi hutun farko,na iske binta da ciki nayi mata murna da fatan Allah ya sauke ta lafiya...ita kuma addu'ar ta Allah shi sa da namiji zata haifa,sai ni na haifi mace suyi aure.dariya ta bani sosai don har zuwa lokacin abin yara takeyi.
A wannan hutun shakuwar mu da binta ta karu,har idan fillo ya shigo ya ganta sai ya ba'ta rai wai tana takura masa.
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Ina makaranta fillo ya zo dubani,sai yake fa'damin binta ta haihu ta sami da namiji.
Nayi hamdala tare da ji mata dadi burinta ya cika na samun da namiji.
Sai da fillo ya jira na gama darasin ranar,sa'ann muka koma gida tare.bai so na biyoshi ba,nikuma nace mashi bazani iya bacci ba idan ban gan dan binta ba.
   Sashen Binta na nufa kai tsaye domin ganin jaririn.
 
Subhanalillah!!!...godiya da yabo sun tabbata ga Allah sarkin halittu...ba mahalukin da zai kalli wannan jaririn baiyi Allah zikiri ba..
Na da'de tsaye rike da yaron sai kallonsa nakeyi,so da kaunar jaririn ya mamaye min zuciya cikin kankanin lokaci.
Dariyar Binta da yan'uwata ya farkar da ni hankalina ya koma garesu sai a lokacin na tuna ashe fa bamu gaisa ba.
sai da sukayi da gaske sa'anan na bada jaririn,kafin ko na bada shi,sai da ya sha sumbatu ta ko ina.
Ina kai da komowa,zaria da kaduna  sabida wannan jaririn da ya tafi min da hankalina.
Ranar suna yaro yaci sunarsa Abubakar Assadiq. Bayan suna da kwana biyar na dawo ganin jariri,sai naji yan gidan suna kiran sa "jelodi".. cikin bacin rai nace waya sa mashi wannan sunar binta tace babansa ne.
Nace masu idan har baza su kira shi da Assadiq ba,a dinga kiransa "Hisham"....daga nan sunarsa jelodi ya mutu sai dai Hisham.
 Mamee ta dan ja numfashi,tayi shiru na dan lokacin,daga ni har Hisham ita muke kallo.
Tayi murmushi tace Hisham din kenan  a gaba na yau ina bashi labari.
A lokaci guda muka kalli juna nida Hisham,sanan muka Mayarda kallonmu ga mamee...ita ma kallonmu take tana murmusawa.
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Kyakyawan jaririn nan ya shiga raina sosai,ina sonsa.
Duk wani abu da zan samu Hisham ne.kudi na a Hisham suke karewa sai dai idan ban gan abin wasan yara ba...mamarshi ta kaiga yafeminshi sai dai kash! Ina makaranta duk da hakan nakan dawo duba shi.

A lokacin da nake rubuta jarabawar barin makaranta,shima fillo a lokacin yake jarabawar gama sekandiri skul.. duk da anyi masa tsallake.
Taro yayi taro.jama'a a makarantan mu kamar ku'da. Makaranta ta gayyaci mutane daga kasashen tsallake har cikin najeriyan ma...yan'uwa da abokan arziki sun zowa daliban don tayasu murna.
Anyi jawabai aka yayemu da za'ayi, ankuma ba da kyautuka zuwa gwarzayen shekaran.
A cikin mata,nice aka baiwa  kyautar wace tafi kowa fasha da basira fanin tuku.,kuma mace ta farko daga arewa wace ta fara zama matukiyar jirgi.
Mama ta tayi farin ciki sosai,burinta ya cika.

Bayan yan kwanaki da kammala makaranta,muna falo fillo na zaune kaina na saman kafafuwansa yana sosamin kai,gefen mu Hisham ne kwance yana baccinsa don tunda na dawo na karbo shi.
"A'isha"...fillo ya anbaci sunana.
Ba tare da na amsa ba na juyo fuska,muna fuskantar juna.
Mi kike ganin zamuyi yanzun tunda mun gama makarantar.?
Hmmmm...haka ne kuma fa.,na da'go daga kwancen na kara gyara zama nace mashi ai nawa da sauki,idan na nemi aiki zan samu.kaine dai abin zancen yanzun.
To..me kike ganin ya dace muyi yanxun?.
Wannan ba wata matsala bace.idan dai sakamakon ka ya fito kuma yayi kyau ina da tabbacin Babana zai kula da sauran..
Haka ne...Allah dai ya saka mashi da aljannar firdausi,iya abinda kawai zan kwatanta biyansa dashi kenan.
Murmushi nayi nace ko zamu kai masu gaisuwa gobe ne?
Shikenan Allah ya kaimu.
   Kashe gari tunda sassafe muka shiga kitchen ,da shike nakanyi girke-girken kalolin abincin da Babana yafiso,sai mu tafi masa dashi.

Kamar yanda na fada maku tare muke shiga kitchen da fillo,a ranar ma haka.bayan mun gama komai mun tsabtace gurin da mukayi  ayyuka mukayi wanka sa'anan na shirya hisham din shima amman kuma ba dashi zamu tafi ba,sabida wata sa'in rigima yakeyi sosai...don haka muka kaishi gun mamarsa don bada ajiyarsa kafin mu dawo.
A duk lokacin da muka je masu ziyara,Baba ji yake tamkar ranar ce farkon haduwan mu ko yayi kamar wanda ya shekare bai ganni ba.
A falonsa muka muke,bai yarda mu shiga cikin gida ba.
Abincin da muka je dashi shi sukaci.

Mama ta ce ta duba agogo,karfe biyar da minti arba'in da daya ,tace ku tashi ku tafi ko!
Shiru-shiru bamu motsa ba,ta sake magana a lokacin karfe shida dai dai.
Babana ya kalleta ya kalleni muka hada ido,da kamar magana a bakinsa amma ya kiyinsa.
Fillo ne ya mike yace toh mama.
Na sake kallon babana shima ni yake kallo,da alama ba ya son na tafi.
na juya ga mamata nace yauwa mama da abinda ya kawo mu fa .
Cikin mamaki tace lafiya dai?.
Nayi murmushi sabida yanayin kallon da tayimin nace lafiya lau.daman buba ne yace tunda na kammala karatun mizanyi yanzun shine nace sai na nemi shawaranki.
Tayi ajiyan zuciya...ku kwantar da hankalinku,innshaa'Allahu cikin watan nan zan sanar da ku abinda ya dace...shima babana ya sanya baki a maganar.
Mun tashi kenan munayi masu sallama,sai akayi kiran magrib.hajiya babbace tace mu bari a yi sallah sa'anan mu tafi
Hisham ya fara zuwa makaranta da kwana uku  akayi birthday sa na cika shekara biyu..a ranar Babana ya aikowa fillo da takadar shiga jami'a ta Ahmadu Bello university dake zaria.
Fillo yayi farin ciki da haka.farin cikin sa ya sani farin ciki. Gashi daman saura kwana biyar ayi walimarsa ta saukan al'qur'ani maigirma.
  A daren ranar baiyi bacci ba sabida farinciki...daga baya ya mike ya gabatar da sallah nafila sa'anan ya dawo inda nake ya kankame ni.
Cikin kwantar da murya yace A'isha!.
Na'am buba.
Me kike ganin zanyi wa mahaifinki ya fahimci cewan ina me matukar godiya da hasken da ya kawo wa rayuwata?
nayi murmushi tare da kankameshi yanda yayimin nace Addu'ar nan dai da kake yi masa shi zaka cigaba.
Bayan wannan fa?
ka sanya ni farin ciki har karshen rayuwta.
Bayan wannan fa?
Su kadai zakayi masa ya gamsu da godiyarka
Anyi an gama innshaa'Allah.
Yayi waige waige kamar ba dagani sai shi a falon ba.ya matso da bakinsa dai dai kunnena ya rada min wata magana da bata wuce batun haihuwa ba,wai mamarsa ta fara korafi.
Maganar sa ta ta'ba ni,sai dai na daure nayi murmushi nace addua kawai zamuyi.
  Cikin sauki da taimakon Allahu Buba fillo ya samu shi jami'an a.b.u zaria.Babana ne yayi ma sa komai,daga kan gidan da zai zauna har zuwa su abinci.
Bayan kamar wata uku da tafiyarsa makaranta,wataran na tafi gidanmu tunda safe,da shike ranar asabar ce.na tarar Babana da hajiya babba sunyi tafiya tare amman a ranar zasu dawo..mamata ce ke gida,sai yannena da basuyi aure ba sai kanina Al-ameen shima ya dawo hutu ne.
Bayan mun gaisa take fadin kamar kinsan zan aika kiranki.
Banyi mamaki ba,nasan wata abin ta samu kenan..nace sai gani!.
Ta jawo durowa ta ciro wata takarda tace gashi..ki tafi dashi ku duba,sai kuyi shawara.duk abinda kuka yanke sai ku sanar dani.
Takarda ce ta makarantar tukin jirgi dake kasar germany.watau makarantan da na fara zuwa suka maidani baya,ita dince mamata ta kara amsowa.
Cikin murna na tashi na rungumeta ina me sumbatarta tare da fadin wannan karon innshaa'allah zaki sha mamaki mamata.
Daga yanayinta zaku fahimci cewan taji dadin furucina sosai,amma ta daure tace ai sai kinyi shawara da mijinki kar mu shiga hakin sa.
A a mama....Buba  bashida matsala,asalima ya matsamin wai nayi maki magana ,ban daiyi bane don nasan da abinda kike tanadar min.
Dariya tayi tace shikenan Allah shi yi maku albarka.
Ameen na fada tare da kaimata kiss
Babana ya sani kuwa? Na tambaye ta
Yana sane.
Karfe biyu da rabi mamata ta shiga kitchen,na tashi zani taimaka mata da wasu ayyuka,sai na tsinci kaina da jin jiri...na fadama ta,tace na tafi na dan kwanta.
INa kwantawa kuwa bacci yayi awon gaba dani.
SAi da akayi kiran mangariba,Al-ameen yazo ya tada ni wai mama tace na tashi.
SAi a lokacin na tuna banyi sallar azahar ba cikin ambatar salati na mike zuwa bayi donyi alwala.
A falo na tarar da mamata tana cin tuwo
Tana ganin na fito tayi kiran al-ameen wai ya daukomin tuwo na.
na zauna a kasar falonta tare da mimmike kafafuna,don naji dadin cin tuwon
Al-ameen ya shigo rike da tire ya dire a gabana,tuwon masara ce da miyar zogale
Na kalli mamata dake nisa dani nace rabon da nagan anyi wannan tuwon a gidan nan tun ina aji uku a sakandiri.bata amsa ni ta cigaba da cin tuwonta.
Na kai loman farko,zan kai ta biyu sai kawai naji zuciya ta na tashi,da sauri na mike  sabida amai.
Amai na ke kwararawa....cikin tashin hankali da rudani mamata ta biyoni tana fadin ya'ya dai!
Na daga mata.
Kamar zan amayo ya'yan cikina ,har zuwa wannan lokacin tana rike dani,bayan aman ya tsagaita ta wanke min fuska,ta samin ruwa na kuskure baki muka fito falo.shiganmu falo aman ya sake dawowa ta sake biyo ni tana fadin bari na kaiki asibiti dai.
Yayana suleiman ke tukin mota ita kuma tana rike dani a bayan mota.
Asibiti da muka nufa mai zaman kantace wanda abokan juna suka hada kai suka gina ta,ciki harda Babana.
Duk wanda bashi da lafiya a gidanmu nan ake kaishi.
bayan gwaje gwaje da sauransu likita ya fito da sakamako,har zuwa wannan lokacin ina kwance jikinta ....da farko ya mika mata ledan magunguna sa'anan yayi mata albishir,wai ina dauke da ciki.
Tsale tayi tana hamdala.
Muna cikin haka ya shigo cikin rudani,ysna isowa inda muke ya tattaba min jiki yana fadin mamata miye same ki.
Ba komai baba!.
Sai a lokacin ya kai dubansa ga mamata yace me likta yace maku?
Albishir tayi masa tana fadin kasami jika.
Duk sunyi murna daganan muka koma gida.
Mamata bata bari na koma gidana ba wai sai na kara samun karfin jiki amman ta aika a fadawa Baba lamido da sauransu cewan bazan samu dawowa ba sabida bana jin dadi.
    Da sanyin safiya su binta suka diro a gidanmu,sun kuwa yo taron dangi...sun dan jima sa'anan sukayi min Allah shi bada lafiya suka tafi.
Binta suka bari da danta hisham...binta ta matsamin akan na fadamata ciwon da ke damuna nace mata nima ban sani ba.mamatace kawai ta sani.
Kafin binta ta wuce nayi amai ya kai so uku,duk abinda na gani idan har naci ne sai naji zuciya ta na tashi,haka yasa ta gane cikine da ni sai ta shiga zolayata tana fadin Hisham ya sami mata.
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SOYAYYARMU

SOYAYYAR MU👫.
      Written by Ganarious.

Visit Ganarious.blogspot.com/ for latest update.
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  Kai na da'ga alamar eh.
Aisha kinsan ni mahaifinkin ne ko
Nace mashi eh!.
Kin kuma san duk cikin ya'yana na fisonki.
Eh Baba na sani.
"Ina kwana na kuma tashi da damuwa akan yanayin da nagan kin shiga,idan dai ba kinason ciwon zuciya ta kamani bane,toh ki fadamin asalin abinda ke damunki domin na nemi mafita kafin yayi nisa.

A hankali da kamar ra'da nace "Baba ina son fillo"...soyayyar da nakewa fillo ce ta jefani a wannan halin.
   Ba alamar mamaki a fuskarsa,asalima murmushi yayi sa'anan yace daman ne na kara daga bakinki.....
Ya kara fadin"shi fillon yana sonki?
Da sauri na da'ga mashi kai tare da fadin shima yana sona sosai baba.
Shikenan!ina son daga yau ki cire damuwa a ranki,zan zaunar da mahaifiyarki mu tattauna   akan matsalarki.
Gabana naji yayi ras...jin ya ambaci mamata.
Nace dashi baba ya'ya zan yi da zance makaranta na?mama zatayi fushi dani sosai,baba ko na maimaita ba tare da ta sani ba.
Murmushi yayi yace"ko kin maimaita baza ki ci ba....
...na gwalo idanuwana alaman mamakin maganar.
A hankali yake shafan kai na,tare da fadin "tare zamu koma gida gobe,idan Allah ya kaimu.
 Tare muka koma gida da babana sai dai a tsorarce nake,ga faduwan gaba!
   A kofar falonta muakayi karo da ita,tana ganinmu ta gyara tsayuwa tare da rungumar hannayenta.
Babana ya riko min hannuna domin kuwa mutuwar tsaye nayi.
Gefenta muka ra'ba zuwa  cikin falon.ta juwo tana binmu da kallo,sai da ta dauki mintuna sa'anan itama din ta karaso.
Bayan ta zauna ta samin ido kamar tana son gano wani abu,jikina kuwa sai makarkata yake.
Babana ya lura da hakan sai yace dani na tashi na shiga ciki zasuyi magana.
Bani da masaniyar maganar da sukayi a tsakaninsu.
A tunane na hukunci mai tsauri mamata yankemin,sai dai labari ya sha bambanci.
  Ban Saki jiki ba sai da na cika sati mahaifiyata ba ta canza min ba..a sati dayan ban hada ido da fillo ba,haka yasa ni kasa samun natsuwa a zuciyata.
Zaune nake a falon Babana ina karatun littafin turanci.Babana ne ya shigo,mamata na biye da shi,na sauko daga kan kujeran na rusuna ina masu sannunsu da dawowa.bayan na gaida su,na tashi zan fita a falon,babana yace na zauna za suyi magana dani.
    Yace dani "nasan kina son karatu sosai Aisha!..matsalarki daya shine son dan fillanin nan..
Aisha ina son kinsan cewa duk wani abu da kike so,idan dai mai faranta maki raine toh shi nake so kuma shi zanyi maki.
Na karanci irin soyayyar da kike yiwa dan fillanin nan kuma nayi kokarin fahimtar da mamarki.Rashin amincewar mu da soyayyarku wata illace babba,don haka ni da mahaifiyarki mun amince wa soyayyarku....idan har shima yana sonki yanda kike sonsa.,batare da cutarwa ba.
a shirye nake da na aura mashi ke...bayan auren sai ki koma makaranta,kiyi karatun ki hankali kwance.
  Na fashe da wata irin kuka me kunshe da farin ciki da kuma bakin ciki.
cikin kukan na mike a sanyaye zuwa gun babana  Na rungumeshi.
Mamata dai kallonmu takeyi ba tare da ta ce wani abu ba,amma jikina ya bani bataji dadin zancen ba.
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Bayan kwana hudu da Yin maganar,babana ya umurci fillo da ya shirya domin za suje ruggansu tare.
Tare da Baba Lamido suka dawo.Bayan sun huta gajiyan tafiya ne Babana ya tara mu a falonsa.ciki har da kannen sa,yannena,mamata da hajiya,fillo da Baba lamido.
Bayan addu'a da godiyar Allah! Babana yace kafin ya fara bayani,zai so yayi fillo wata tanbaya.tambayar kuwa itace 'kana son Aisha kamar yanda take sonka?
Da sauri da sauri yace "eh'eh,ina sonata...inason ta sosai"
Toh maa shaa Allah. shi nakeson ji nake kuma son yan uwanka da nawa yan uwan suji domin su duka su zama shaidu.
ya juyo gareni yace Aisha ke fa?
Kaina na jinjina batare da na fadi wani abu ba.
Shikenan..ya fada sa'anan ya cigaba da fadin ya tara su domin su gani su kuma shaida zai baiwa fillo diyarshi.
Diyata kwaya daya tak! Wacce nafiso,ban hada da komai ba.farincikin shine nawa farincikin.
idan bayan auren dan fillo yayi mata ba dai-dai ba,shi ma fa ba zani raga masa ba.shiyasa na tara ku anan ku zama mani shaida'
Sa'anan kuma bayan auren inason ta cigaba da karatun ta.
Ya kalli fillo yana fadin ina fatan zaka iya da kuma amincewa da bukatuna.
Eh na amince baba,na kuma gode maka,Allah ubangiji yasaka maka da gidan aljanna.
ya kuma kai kallonsa gun Baba lamido yace masa idan fa hakan baiyi maka ba,kai da yan'uwa toh muna marhaba da duk wata shawaran da zaku kawo.
Sun zurfafa zancen,daga bisani kanin mahaifina yace wa Baba Lamido su turo magabatansu,idan sunyi shawara.

Yan'uwan fillo sunyi shawarwari a tsakaninsu,sunyi murna sosai tare da yiwa babana godiya.
Wasun su sun zo domin yin maganar auren,nan ma Babana ya sake yi masu kashedi akan su jawa dansu kunne.
Kafin su koma ruggansu,babana ya dauke su zuwa "my precious estate"
My precious estate da ke hanyar mando,estate ne da mahaifina ya gina shi da sunana.da farko mahaifiyata ta shawarce shi da ya sanya yan haya sai a dinga saving mani kudin hayan...
Shawarar ta chanza sabida babana ya kyautarwa yan'uwan fillo estate din.
Ya umurci baba Lamido dasu dawo nan din da zama sabida shi dai kam bazai aminta da zamana a rugga ba.....cikin gine-ginen akwai sashen da aka ke'ra min,shi wannan sashen gini ne da yasamo asali daga korea.
Wani lokacin na raka babana wata semina na yan' kasuwa da masu kamfunoni,bayan seminar aka kai mu masauki,watau wata karamar hotel ne amman fa tun daga wa'jen hotel zaka rude sabida tsarinta.
Na wangale baki ina me kara kallon ginin ba abinda nake fadi sai'waw....'waw.
Babana kuwa sai murmushi yakeyi ya jin dadin gani na haka.
tsarin ginin ya tafi da hankalina,har muka dawo bani da zance sai na ginin...hakan yasa babana ya ke'be min  gefe daya a cikin estate din aka keramin ginin.

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Ba'a bata lokaci gun sanya ranar aurenmu ba.sabida makarata da zani koma.
     Labarin aurena da fillo ya bi gari,wasu na yabo da jinjina wa babana,wasu kuma na zaginsa,wasun ma suna mamaki har sun kai ga tsaidani a hanya don jin zancen daga bakina ko dagake ne.

Daga lokacin da aka sanya ranar aurenmu nake cikin farin ciki da anashuwa,shima fillon haka don kuwa sai da yayi sadaka da shanayensa biyu.
Mahaifiyata dai ba yabo ba fallasa.tana zani iyacewa tana son auren zani iyace wa kuma bata so ta dai amince ne sabida dalilan babana cewan idan na sami abinda nake so zan natsu nayi karatu hakan yasa ta kwantar da hankali ta tarbi zancen hannu bibbiyu.
Kawayen mamata da yan'uwan basu barta ba.suna fadin yaya za'ayi na auri wanda yafito daji!...sunaye iri-iri ba wanda basu kira fillo dashi ba.
Haka suka sa mamata gaba suna yarfa mata ruwan bala'i...idan sunyi mata sai kuma su dawo kaina suyi min...
Anty amina mamar ya'nazeer tayi magiya,tayi roko wai a fasa auren da fillo na auri nazeer dinta don shi yafi dace wa dani kuma a shirye yake ko yazun nan,amma babana ya kara jadada mata sai wanda nace ina so....tayi kira na gefe daya tace na kara tunani akan wannan auren.

Yan'uwan fillo karka-kaf dinsu sun dawo 'MY PRECIOUS ESTATE'da zama.
Ana sauran kwana hudu daurin aure ya'nazeer ya iso a birkice.sumbatu yakeyi kamar taba'be..sai fadin yake wabillahillazhi idan baki fasa auren dan dajin nan ba zan sace ki,ko na kashe kaina amma zan fara kashe ki sai kowa ya rasa.
Na tausaya mashi,na kuma tsorarta da furucinsa sai dai na fahimta ba'a cikin hayacinsa yake wadannan maganganun ba.
Baba na ya zaunar da ya'nazeer yayi masa nasiha sai dai kirikiri ya'nazeer shi bazai taba hakura dani ba.

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Allah ya kaimu ranar aure,an kuma daura lafiya.
Duk wani mahalukin da ya halarci wannan auren yasan ni yar gata ce ta mussaman.
Sai a ranar mamata tayi kuka domin kuwa yan'uwanta sun sat gaba fiye da zaton ku
.....tana kuka tana ce masu ya'ya suke son tayi da rayuwarta!
Ina kwance a dakina tare da kawayena na jiyo hayaniya,har zan fito sai kuma na fasa don a zatona yan taron bikin ne ke hayaniyar..sai ga wata yar uwar ta shigo,nake tambayarta "hayaniyar me akeyi"
Nan take fadamin wai mamata ce da yan'uwanta suke sa'insa, ba tare da na sauriri abinda zata fada ba na mike a guje zuwa falon mamata na kuwa yi sa'a har zuwa wannan lokacin basu daina fadamata maganganu ba.
  A gabansu na zube  ina fadin ba laifinta bane,ita ma bata son auren! Wallahi itama bata so,nice dai nakijin maganarta...don Allah kuyi hankuri
Anty saudat,itace babbansu,ta taso daga inda take zaune..tana kaiwa inda nake takaimin mari...
...kiyi wa mutane shiru! Ashe baki da mutunchi ehee! Baki da kunya har kike fadin bata so amman kin bijire mata! Ko maza sun kare a duniya ne...ehe!
toh bari kiji..tunda kin ki nazeeru,mu ma din bamu sonki. Je ki ki auri jahili amman fa duk abinda ya biyo baya ki nemi mamarki da babanki...ba mu ba ke!
A haka dai sukayita surutansu,ni kuwa ba abinda nakeyi sai kuka.
suna gamawa anty saudatu tace da sauran kannenta su tashi su tafi,ba tare da sun sallameni ko sanyawa auren albarka balleshi wai shawarwari ko rakiya.
Bayan tafiyansu na tashi nakoma inda mamata take zaune na rungume kam..ina fadin mama ki yafe min.
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A lokacin da za'a kai amarya watau ni kenan..Babana yayi kiran fillo da iyayensa da wasu daga cikin yan'wan babana din,da yannena da su hajiya.bayan godiya ga Allah s..w.t da ya nuna mashi ya kuma bashi ikon aurar da diyarshi.yayi bayanai akan yanda yakeji a ransa sa'anan daga baya ya jawa fillo kunne akan ya rike amana.

Yan uwan babana sai wasu daga cikin kawayen mamata sai kawayena ne sukayimin rakiya.
Yan uwan fillo sunyi murna sosai da aka kaini,sunyi kwaliaya irin ta su dai.
Kawayena sun kwana tare dani sabida walima da za'ayi da safe.
Duk sun watse bayan walima...sai a lokacin fillo ya shigo.
Kallo daya zakayi mashi ka fahimci cewan yana cikin farin ciki,sai godiya ma Allah yakeyi yana fadin Allah nagode maka na gode ma baban Aishetu...aljannace kawai zaka saka mashi dashii..kallonsa kawai nakeyi inajin son sa har a raina.
Aurenmu na neman sati uku,amman wani abu na ma'aurata bai shiga tsakaninmu da fillo ba,dalili kuwa shine karanci ko nace rashin ilimi addinin islama a tattare dashi..da kaina na bashi shawarwari neman ilimi da neman sanin yanda ake ayyuka kamar su wanka da sauransu...ba musawa sai ma farin ciki dayayi da bayanai na.
  Akwai masallaci da kuma makaranta a cikin estate din.Babana ya samo mallamai,ya basu gidajen da ba'a shiga ba.domin koyar da yan'uwan fillo.

Zaman jin dadi da annashuwa mukeyi...ba renin hankali a tsakaninmu,ina girmamashi..a matsayina na matarsa wacce ke kasa dashi.
Ban taba kawo wa rai na gatanci na ko kudin babana zai rufe min ido na kaskantashi ko maidashi kasa dani ba.Asalima sarki na maida shi domin kuwa komai nike mashi,nice ke  shafa mashi mai ajiki,nice ke yanke masa farce da sauransu.
shi din ma haka yake baya kaunar ganin na matsa kusa dashi.idan ina kitchen zai biyo ni tare muke komai,idan na gama aiki muyi gyare gyare tare..baya bari nayi aikin gida ni kadai,haka duk inda zani je,tare muke zuwa.
  Binta abin so Ya samu ta dawo birni da zama,kusan kullum tana sashena...godiya kaw sai da nayi da gaske sa'annan ta daina wai nice sanadin zuwan ta birni...tare muke jerawa zuwa islamiya da ita.
  Bayan watanni biyu izuwa uku da yin aurenmu,Banana Ya aiko muzo gida nida fillo.
Ya jidadi sosai da ganinmu sabida farincikinsa a bayayyane yake..
Naje zan rungumeshi,ya tsaida ni yana fadin ai yanzu  kin wuce nan...na ba'ta fuska tare da komawa gefe, shi kuwa fillo tunda muka isa gidan kansa a duke
Bayan gama gaisuwar da  babana ya umurce mu da mushiga cikin  gida don gaisawa dasu hajiya.
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