The relationship stop light (ignore at your own peril)
RED FLAGS
- Controlling, violent and/or manipulative behaviour.
- Volatile emotional cycles of push-pull behavior.
- Uses your trauma/things shared in confidence against you.
- Deceitful around the relationship with previous exes
- Claims to be committed to you, yet still seeing other people.
- Physical/psychological/emotional abuse. (They don't make your life feel better, they make your life worse. They drain you spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. They drag you down and cause you to become somebody you are not)
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YELLOW FLAGS
- Not much in common around values, goals and interests
- Resistant to using your love languages
- Family/friends have too much influence on your relationship
- Trust, jealousy issues
- Not wanting to be a Facebook/Instagram official.
GREEN FLAGS
- Clear and consistent communication
- Willingness to respect boundaries
- Manages conflict without decarding or degrading.
- Hold space in conflict for different perspective and apologizes when wrong
- Introspective plus discusses previous relationship respectfully.
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